Five of Wands (Upright) | Tarot Card of the Day

"Overcoming the Comparison Game, Cultivating Inner Worth, and Fostering Cooperation."

Five of Wands (Upright) | Tarot Card of the Day

Five of Wands (Upright) | Tarot Card

The Five of Wands represents competition, ambition, and struggle.

It symbolizes the inner tension we feel when we are caught up in our egos, constantly comparing our “status” in relation to others. Early on kids are taught “you must be the winner!” Life is a series of competitions.... best at music, best at Monopoly, best at softball, best at spelling. You must win at each thing you try otherwise...........you must be a loser, a nothing, a failure at life. This sort of “all or nothing” thinking sets up impossible standards that can never be attained. As kids grow into adulthood, they carry this toxic baggage, feeling there is something wrong with them. No wonder so many adults struggle with self-esteem.

When the Five of Wands appears in a reading, it's a signal that we need to recognize the destructive patterns rooted in our competitive nature. It's essential to embrace a more balanced perspective, understanding that our self-worth is not solely based on external achievements. The card invites us to reflect on what truly matters in life and find inner fulfillment beyond social comparisons. By fostering a healthier mindset, we can work collaboratively with others, transforming competition into cooperation and conflict into creative solutions.

Five of Wands 🪄💥 for May 28th (Upright) | Daily Tarot Reading/Card of the Day | Elliot Oracle

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Do you constantly compare your “status” with others?

Do you feel that you must be perfect at everything? Have you ever stopped to think how adolescent that is?

The adolescents on the card are competing.[1] Each is trying to prove that he has the biggest stick. Each of the competitors think there can only be one winner. They think to themselves, “Either I win this, or I am humiliated.” The teenagers on the card do not have the wisdom that age engenders. They do not see that each is an individual, with their own combination of unique skills. This is represented by their distinctive colored costumes and designs. Each figure in the card has condensed his whole concept of self-worth on a game of sticks! This is all or nothing thinking, and it is very damaging to self-esteem.

You don’t have to win at everything to be worthy.

Think about it, could you ever attain being the richest, most beautiful, eternally young, perfect bodied, artistic genius? Oh, and smartest person in the world, best at every sport, every subject, every language, every artistic medium and every skill set known to man? Nobody can do that! The truth is that we each have a unique combination of gifts. You might not be the best at each skill and talent you possess, however, there is no person on the planet with your unique combination of talents, skills, and abilities.

The Five of Wands encourages you to shift the focus from competition to collaboration. Each individual is a piece of the puzzle, contributing their unique skills and talents to the larger picture. Rather than comparing or competing, we can achieve greater success and fulfillment by recognizing and appreciating each other's strengths. It's not about who has the biggest stick, but how we can use our individual 'sticks' to build something grander together.

Today, catch yourself if you are playing the game of the big sticks! It’s ridiculous! You are special, unique and radiate a beauty that is all your own. Nobody does you like you. Your unique blend of skills, talents, and qualities is your greatest strength. So, embrace your individuality, honor your uniqueness, and allow yourself to shine in your own distinct way. My favorite entertainer Judy Garland used to say:

“Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else.”

Five of Wands in a Love Reading

New Relationship

The Five of Wands can warn of childishness, immaturity, or incompatible values in a new relationship. Just because you prize certain qualities or expectations does not promise that the person you feel strongly about feels the same. This card can also signify an internal conflict about whether you should proceed with this person. Let your maturity to lead the way.

Long Term Partnership

The Five of Wands can highlight a simmering conflict that habitually boils over. This can come in the form of bickering, squabbling, or “scorekeeping” insignificant infractions. The point trying to be proved has nothing to do with the underlying source of the tension.

Seeking Romance

If you are single, you may still be feeling conflicted about a past love. Although you may feel hurt and angry, there is a strange attraction to revisiting the past. Before attempting a new relationship, seek closure for unresolved feelings first. This card can also signify unresolved anger that is frustrating your search for love.

[1] Johannes Fiebig and Evelin Burger, The Ultimate Guide to the Rider Waite Tarot, (Woodbury, MN. Llewellyn Publications., 2016), 86. The authors of this book were the first to make me realize that these were adolescents competing in a struggle.

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