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By viewing individual situations through this lens, clients gain safety and distance from their fears and can detach from specific outcomes.

The Card of the Day: Death (Reversed)

The Card of the Day: Death (Reversed)

“Resisting change.” 


The Death card is the tarot's most notorious symbol for change and transformation. Many people are afraid to sit at a tarot reader's table because the "dreaded Death Card" might show up! We've all seen the movies where the dark and mysterious fortune teller turns over the death card, to foretell someone's ghastly end. In reality, the Death card is a wonderful card to get in a reading. It means that conditions are going through vitally important changes, for your own good. Although not always welcome, and sometimes shocking to experience, the change is absolutely necessary. Death is ALWAYS accompanied by rebirth. Like the legendary Phoenix, you too will rise from the ashes to live a joyful life again...revitalized and renewed.

Do you struggle with accepting change? Does fear of death, keep you from actually "living" your life? What old, unneeded, part of yourself are you resistant to letting go of, even though you know it would set you free?

Death appears astride his white horse, to herald an end to the old ways. His steed marches over kings and commoners alike. No one is immune from his power. All must change. Everything that lives must die. Death's banner is a white rose on a black background. This is stark symbol of a truth that is "black and white." Light (the white flower) always emerges after darkness (the black background). Although his skeletal face looks scary, Death is not a monster. Nobody wants to see Death, even though he has the thankless job of ending suffering. Death cannot be bargained with, and eventually visits all. The King under the horse found that out. No amount of money could put off this day for him. The adolescent girl in the card looks away...unable to look Death in the face. The priest has been preparing for Death his whole life, and yet even he kneels uneasily.

Only the fearless little child in the foreground holds a flower up to death. Children don't get scared of change the way adults do... Children don't fear death, because they don't understand a fear of "the great beyond"..... Actually, they were just there! Why be afraid of a realm of infinite joy, reunion, relief, rebirth, peace, and laughter?

Look closely at the background of the Death card...past the river...way up in the distance where the two towers form a gate. A realm of light lies beyond, represented as either a rising or setting sun. Whether it is rising or setting sun is unimportant...for as the sun setting here it is simultaneously rising somewhere else. Is that a "shining city" illuminated in the sun's radiance?

Overcoming your fear of change is the requirement of this card. Powerful symbolism, as appears on the Death card, has the power to place us in direct confrontation with what we are most resistant to. Being in denial, and avoiding making necessary changes, sets you up for a rude awakening. Why put yourself through that? However, if you cooperate with the change all is going to be alright.

Today, don't fear your changes...they are occurring as a better you is being born.

When the Death card appears reversed it asks you what changes you are resisting. Often the answer can be found in what you are avoiding. When Death appears reversed it's time to challenge the state of denial. You know what needs changing. You know what needs your courage right now. The question is if you are going to approach your personal transformation with passive or assertive energy. Passive energy is going to make you dread change. You will say to yourself "Why is this happening to me?"

When you approach difficult changes and life challenges with courage, then you have some control over your feelings in this situation. Facing fears gives you great power over them. You no longer find yourself running and hiding from reality. Death reversed brings you in touch with the very things you've been avoiding because there is a powerful lesson here, life wisdom that you will attain by confronting.

Today, step back into the light. Face and let go of all that which no longer serves you. What has been keeping you stuck and in a state of fear or immobility? This card is very healing for clearing out energy blockages. Take action and embrace the changes that are occurring. Remember that with each Death there is a Rebirth. As the sun sets here it is simultaneously rising elsewhere. Do not fear what is changing right now. Face it with courage because it's all part of a larger Universal plan which you are here to learn. Often the fear isn't "of" something, but rather it is the fear of stepping up, taking your power back and allowing yourself to grow past this lesson. "Old and familiar" is comfortable even if it's killing you inside.

Do not avoid anymore. Have courage because the transformation you are resisting is meant to be. Let your changes happen. The Sun will rise again if you do.

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